It is often thought that sympathy, sociality, and comfort come naturally from people, but in reality, learning to become a comfortable person can learn.
In a study at the University of California, subjects rated more than 500 descriptions of people based on how they see a nice person. Most of the descriptions had nothing to do with sociability, intelligence, or appearance charm.
Instead, the most common descriptions were related to sincerity, openness, and understanding. People like this are often social and emotionally intelligent.
If you want others to like you, you should